Aries: Aries, January 2020 brings you challenges, new experiences, and struggles. You can overcome any obstacles in your life with little understanding and patience. There will be some misunderstanding and conflict with the elders in the family. Be compassionate and empathetic to avoid conflicts and maintain unanimity in the family. On the Career front, as your stars suggest you will face many challenges. You will achieve success but it will be full of struggle and hard work. Be careful while signing any documents. The married life of the Aries will remain good and peaceful. Those with long term relationship will think of marriage. Finances for you this month will be good. On the education front, students need to focus on their studies. Those applying for higher studies will be successful. As for your health, give some time to your body also. Rest and some fun-filled social activities will be beneficial. Avoid unhealthy food. Travel for any purpose is on the cards which will be beneficial for you.
The planetary positions for Aries tell that the year 2020 will be a year full of opportunities in terms of career and overall growth. You will bring passion and creativity and the unfinished work of the previous year will be completed. You will find your dreams coming true. During the first two month of this year you may start a new work but because of the planetary position of Saturn in your career house it will take a lot of hard work and struggle for you to achieve it. Think twice before making any decisions regarding travel and finance between the fifth month to the ninth month of this year. However, your stars reveal that you will buy a new house either in the country or abroad. Your relationship with your family and friends will improve. At the end of this year you may have to deal with some sort of conflict of the Past. Pay attention to your health during the year. Your success depends on your temperament and patience. Remove any negative feeling that you will have with spiritual healing. Your life in 2020 on the whole will be full of personal and professional success.
There is good news as you will never have any major problems related to money and financial matters. You will help out your friends and family financially. Your ambitious nature will want you to earn income from other sources, but beware, never move in a wrong direction or employ shortcut methods or enter into a speculative trade to earn some good money. However during the second month of this year and the second last month you may have to face family disputes regarding finances and property. Do not lose hope, by the beginning of December you will start getting financial gains from your past investment. Your financial decisions will either have a negative impact or a positive impact on your financial conditions.
Business and Career 2020:
The year 2020 is going to be full of mixed results as far as your profession is concerned. You need to be very strong and persistent in this year to achieve results. Be confident but not over confident otherwise it will lead you to failure. Avoid taking any major decisions regarding your business during the first month of this year. Taking too much risk to achieve something will lead to losses. Think logically before commencing any business activity or investment. As per your career horoscope, there is a chance of receiving work offers from abroad. This year will be filled with incentives, promotions, hikes, bonus, and higher pay scales. By the end of November you will complete your projects. This year has a lot of advantages, but the greed for more can end up in a mess or trouble.
For Aries natives, the year 2020 will be good and favorable one. You will be presented with many opportunities to pursue higher education. Always take the right decision while choosing your stream, and move towards something that is connected with your interests. However during the beginning of the year there maybe some problems and issues that will not let you concentrate on your studies. You must remain calm so that the situation does not overtake your peace of mind. This will be golden year for those pursuing Medical Sciences, Law, Fashion Designing, Interior Decoration or Information Technology. Aspirants competing for competitive exams will be successful. This year is also good for those who are planning to go abroad for studies for their higher studies. Choose your stream wisely and go for it.
Lovelife 2020 :
Aries natives are strong and hard from the outside, but soft and sweet from the inside. The period from the mid of February to the mid of April, there will be opportunities for new romantic relationships with someone who could be your prospective life partner. Those Aries, if in relationship should be careful not to become a victim of misunderstanding and conflicts. To avoid such a situation do not keep any secrets from you love partner. There could be even obstacles and breakup in romantic life. So, always maintain peace and harmony. Old romantic relationships will become closer and intimate but refrain from getting emotional or romantically involved with your ex. Singles will meet their perfect ones in their social gathering. This is a good time to lay the foundation for romance.
Married life for the Arians will be a period with rises and falls in your married life. There will be difference of opinion and the clash of ideas between you and your life partner. You can avoid the conflicts and arguments with understanding and patience. Never let the opinion of others create obstacles in your married life. Sit down and have an open communication and discussion over matters that is causing a problem. You will be a proud parent during this year. Those with children will see promising results and success from them. The Unmarried may tie the knot with the person who they love. To conclude, openness and honesty are the foundation of a happy marriage.
Aries personality traits include a strong sense of leadership, independence and individuality. Aries have strong opinions and personalities and always have the urge to be number-one. They are always competitive and love a challenge. Aries is the sign of the trendsetters, innovators, initiators, good thinkers and trailblazers. Besides, personally they love anything new and fresh. Positive traits include leadership, fearlessness and a strong sense of self-confidence. They�re not afraid to face trouble or hesitate to speak up for what they believe. Sometimes, they could become angry and anxious while suppressing their emotions. Some of the difficult traits include selfishness, anger, aggression and impatience. Despite known for self-dependence, they like being pampered, cuddled and even financially supported. At times, they can also be extremely generous, giving large sums to charity and social causes.
The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign produces in you a truly explosive personality; dynamic, hard hitting, powerful, and magnetic. Every idea put forth in the reading of your Sun sign is intensified by the Aries Moon. Independence and self-confidence may be so intensified that they become a stumbling block in personal relationships, if they are not somewhat tamed. You are an individualist first, last, and always. You are extremely impatient with people, sometimes to the extent of being intolerant. People may view you as hardboiled because of a tendency for you to be too matter-of-fact. You do express yourself readily and forcefully, with considerable dramatic effect. It's painfully difficult for you to listen to and understand the woes of others. Yet you can be demanding of the attention of those around you on those rare occasions when you disclose your personal problems. You are not an intellectual person, and you may not have even taken the time to get a good education. In fact, well-educated and intellectually pretentious folks are among those you find the most boring and uninteresting. You are not impressed with abstract thoughts and ideas, only actions and accomplishments. This is not to say you don't use your mind. Your mind is always active: reading, talking, discussing. When it comes to getting things done and done rapidly, your talents can fit the bill. This position provides exceptional leadership traits, but a need to develop qualities of tact and consideration for the feeling of others can impede progress.
The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign shows that you can combine forcefulness and enough tact to do pretty much as you please, and get away with it. For all the charm and dash of manner about you, there is a distinct layer of steely drive and determination. The aggressiveness and rough edges of Aries are softened and smoothed by the influence of Taurus. You can be an agreeable and polite person, with tactless behavior kept well in check. You have a curious way of appearing tactful even as you lay down the law and demand your way. There's a "sugar and spice" way of driving your point home, and winning. You have a powerful magnetic quality, coupled with a very strong will and determination for leadership. All Aries are natural leaders, but in this configuration, there is more stability and more of a solid base to the operation. You think highly of yourself, though you aren't one to make a show of this. Yet a pervading sense of your abilities is the foundation of your life. You're never likely to suffer from an inferiority complex. You need to learn to rule without dominating and to adjust your desires to the happiness of those around you. Anyhow, regardless of your sex, You're likely to be the dominant partner in your marital relationship, and you'll try to control circumstances in nearly any situation you find yourself.
The combination of your Sun and Moon signs produces one of the most verbally active pairs in the Zodiac. You're likely to dominate any conversation as your mind works fast and releases the information it has processed just as fast. You have to learn to keep things to yourself at least until you've made up your mind, which you don't find easy to do. It is easier for you to make decisions by sitting down and talking things out rather than by closing yourself off, studying the issues and concentrating on the alternatives. Speaking before you think and jumping to conclusions can get you in deep trouble. Success will come easier for you after you have learned, and practised, the art of secrecy, clearly thinking things through before you charge off. This shortcoming notwithstanding, you are likely to get far in the world because of your quick wit and good intentions. Your debate skills allow you to back lesser opponents into the corner with relative ease. Surprisingly, as quick as you act, you have an especially good knack for details. In business, your command of facts and figures gives you the semblance of the perfect executive. Nonetheless, you're often guilty of a little oscillation and indecision stemming from too many superficial facts and too little depth of study. Anyhow, fluency of mind is your primary attribute. Your style of getting bits and pieces of information and using them in a glib and effective way can take far. You may aspire to become an executive. However, the hard decision making necessary here may not be as natural for you as a spot in advertising, the literary world, or in other areas where your outstanding business acumen focused on anything dealing with the spoken or written word can be employed. You should try to overcome a certain superficiality with respect to both intellectual and emotional matters.
The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign blends the determined and aggressive traits of Aries, with the sensitivity, sympathy, and intuition of Cancer. This pairing produces a unique quality that generally permits you to succeed in a variety of endeavors. Unlike many dynamic Aries types, you can "feel" out the other fellow before jumping to an immediate conclusion. The Cancer influence slows down a tendency merely to react with an aggressive response to any stimuli. You are apt to put more thought and understanding into your actions. You have a knack for handling people because you know how to capture their imagination with your flair for dramatic appeals, and your seeming concern for their general welfare. This is not to say that you are a humanitarian by nature. In fact, like all Aries, you are somewhat self-centered in many ways. But talented enough, and sensitive enough, always to present yourself in a very convincing light. Though it is unintentional, at times you are damaging to others, or hurt them, without understanding that you are doing so. Your social perceptions are so keen that you can rise very rapidly with much popular support. The ease with which you can lead is sometimes a wonder even to yourself. While you have much pride in your abilities, you may often find yourself a little inwardly unsure. You may question how you can gather the dash and excitement that permits you to express yourself so convincingly. It's important that you remember not to take yourself too seriously and avoid excesses in dramatization.
The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign produces a personality that blends the Aries drive for success with the warmth, nobility, and balance of Leo. People respond to you naturally because of you are an interesting, active, adventurous, and exciting person. You pursue your ideals with great energy, excitement, a sense of adventure, and boundless enthusiasm. You love people and they respond to you in a very positive way to your magnetic personality. Self-image is all important to you, and you have a natural faith in yourself and probably a total confidence in your abilities. You respect yourself to a high degree and see yourself as a natural born leader. You need to achieve to reinforce this wonderful sense of worth, and to maintain a rightful position of leadership and popularity. Success may come because you can come up with good ideas, but more often it is because those above you and those below you both like you a lot and are willing to listen and follow you. You don't hesitate to tell people that you "need" them, because in your open and honest way, you're confident that they will respond to you and back your cause. You have a warm heart and an affectionate nature, because of a harmonious blending of individuality and personality; thinking and feeling are very much in tune. You have a talent for clear vision or for visualizing your goal or objective, concentrating on these goals and objectives, and attaining them.
The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign shows that you are very cool emotionally. A fine critical nature seems to replace a good deal of the impetuosity often associated with Aries. You are likely to have a mind that is channeled into practical matters, and you have a "no nonsense" attitude about most issues. Effeciency is all important to you. You have a driving determination to get things done, and to get them done right. You are definitely an achiever, combining your cool-headed judgment and the energy to put your thoughts into action. You may be lacking in creativity and originality, but you readily absorb knowledge and put it to use in a very efficient way. You figure things out from every angle and never overlook the smallest detail. You're hard to work for, because you're so exacting. You can be very pointed in your manner of criticizing a half-finished job or work that in any way reveals unacceptable quality. You are potentially a very fine executive if you can keep from making too many enemies with your aggressive and critical nature. You're not a romantic or a socially outgoing person, and you may even be something of a "lone wolf" type.
The combination of your Sun and Moon signs produces contradictions in your makeup because these signs are precisely opposite one another, a full 180 degrees apart. Aries is naturally independent; the Libra Moon is sometimes very dependent. This is a difficult position presenting a problem between the emotional and mental nature. You are ambitious and eager to please people, with the sort of personality that seems to reach out to others as if you are in need of reassurance and guidance. Your nature is highly individualized, yet you are just as highly dependent on support and sympathy. The contradiction in your nature is that you value your freedom intensely, and while it would appear that your need for support could even result in you being dominated by another, this is never likely to be the case. You can ignore the feelings, opinions, and wishes of others when you get an idea in your head. The ability to concentrate on one thing for a prolonged period is very difficult for you. You can be daydreaming even when by all appearances you are hard at work. The dramatic side of your nature will always make it hard to keep your feet planted firmly on the ground and remain totally practical.
The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign produces an individual who combines assertiveness with a strong drive to control, improve, and revolutionize. This is a somewhat difficult position because of the intensity of your feelings, and the only thing that you may be satisfied with, is you. You are a very competent person, and you recognize this as a fact. Even when things are not going well, you are never one to become discouraged or inclined to give up. You are always seeking a new mountain to climb or a new challenge to meet. Change and revolution fascinate you, and you eagerly yearn to engage in any sort of competition or turmoil in which you can be a part. You may seem genial enough and have a pleasant, smiling face, but somehow others know that you are not one to be imposed upon or taken for granted. You are neither a materialist nor a humanitarian, but strive instead for recognition and admiration. The only reward you really seek is the personal satisfaction of seeing the job done right or the challenge met. In fact, to you, the work you do can be an end unto itself. You can get things done on your own, and you are likewise inspiring to others. People find you magnetic and interesting. Though people are drawn to you, the converse is not always true, and you may have few close friends. Self-sufficiency and self-respect seem all that you need much of the time. You are so self-contained and capable that you may often fail to receive any reasonable degree of sympathy and concern from others when these might be called for. This is not a concern for you because, just as you are harsh and demanding on those with whom you deal, you are just as hard and uncompromising with yourself.
The combination of your Sun and Moon sign produces independence of thought, action, and speech. This is a position of dynamic ideals and popular appeal. You believe in the truth with an almost absolute devotion. This belief is perhaps not in the truths of scientific investigation, but more likely in the proper philosophies of life and other large issue abstractions. The natural tendency for Aries to be the pioneer, the fighter, the doer, and the initiator of new concepts and ideas is not greatly modified by this combination. Yet the Sagittarius Moon does impose a personal code of ethics and honor that may not always be present in the brash Aries native. In you, executive powers are strongly marked, taking the form of controlling others with ideas and principles. The proper path that should be followed is so clear to you that you are not one ever to mince words in plotting the course. Your intensely emotional approach to getting something accomplished can sometimes limit your awareness of the feeling of others and you can be tough on those around you. The human frailties of pettiness, emotionalism, and jealousy are not well understood by you, and do not relate well with your totally open and frank personality. You are definitely a leader of men, though you may not always understand them, conversely, people may completely respect you, but fault you for a lack of sensitivity. In all types of dealings there is tendency to employ a broad brush approach often finding it difficult to come down to the real and personal everyday issues. Your best fields of endeavor will be found in the professions.
The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign blend the attributes of the Ram (Aries) and the Goat (Capricorn), equipping you well for the task of battering and climbing. This position gives natural talents for managing and directing as the driving force of Aries is tempered with the persistence and deliberate judgment of Capricorn. You have an inner drive for success that is rarely equaled. There are also very definite ideas about where you are going and how you are going to get there; and you're not one to let anything stand in your way. In many ways you are an opportunist who knows how to judge people, spot problem people, and problem situations, before they get the upper hand. You may not get to your goals as quickly as many fellow Aries, since avoiding the pitfalls and waiting for the chance that is really what you want. This is a strength that other Aries may not possess. Nonetheless, your drive is always hard, and fast, compared to normal standards. Though you are full of energy and determination, and you seem to waste very little of these on nonproductive activities. You seem to know how to direct your efforts to get what you want. Being a very worldly person, fame and recognition are your top priorities or at least very near the top. You will give up a lot in a personal sense for success. You may make a good spouse, but marriage is not likely to be all important in your life, but rather an event. The career may be foolishly placed ahead of family. Your intellect is not unsound, but abstract knowledge or knowledge for its own sake, holds little appeal to you. Common sense seems much more valuable so far as you are concerned.
The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign indicates a nature that, while being somewhat discriminating, is very sociable and magnetic. People respond to your likable personality with few reservations. You have a good sense about want is modern and progressive, and you're always eager to play an important role in any kind of progress. But in fact, you are not an especially tolerant person. Holding to the establishment more as a reactionary than a liberal is more than likely your style. While you work well with the public, there is a tendency within you to feel that everyone should fend for themselves. You are not one to be particularly charitable to those less fortunate than yourself. This factor notwithstanding, you have innate social skills allowing you to make each person you meet feel that they are uniquely important to you. You have a noble air about you that is impressive and seems to signal that you have a good deal of self-esteem. A certain aristocracy of breeding is denoted by this position. This impresses those with whom you come in contact and they respect you for this. You are quick to judge people and situations, as your whole life seems to move at a pretty rapid pace. You are romantic and highly idealistic. This is a good placement for material success and well-being, and for some degree of public recognition.
The combination of your Sun and Moon signs produces a somewhat introverted,
self-analyzing, soul-searcher; not at all the typical Aries. Though you may have great
potential in many directions, you seem to always harbor doubts and underestimate
yourself. Making everyday decisions can, at times, be a trying experience for you.
Strangely, however, you have a very determined streak in your nature, a need to be
independent. You take things very personally, and impressions that come to you via
your senses leave a very indelible mark on your mind. It's hard for you to avoid being
very moody and worrying entirely too much. Your natural demeanor denies this, as you
give a great impression of forcefulness, but internally you are timid, a little afraid
of the world, and even afraid and unsure of your opinions. Again, you don't let the
world see the shy person that you are. You dislike being imposed upon and you aren't
shy about letting others know this. You express yourself readily with a facile manner
of speaking. Bold as a lion on the outside, but meek as a lamb underneath. You have
some difficulty concentrating, simply because you're a little too much the dreamer.
You're not a very executive person and you aren't well suited for business; decisions
are just too hard to make. It may be best not to worry about such matters, and instead
concentrate on more congenial endeavors such as art, music, or writing, any of which
would appeal more to your creative nature.
Aries and Aries, when Fires get together... Waves of energy burst and enthusiasm invades their world. But very strong energies sometimes collide. Aries people have deep-rooted opinions and are very stubborn. Your purpose in the zodiac is to represent the force of life, the energy. "I" is the most important word in the vocabulary of an Aries. Therefore, the combination between two Aries people could become one of those spicy things - in plain English, a troubled love. If each of you succeed in going beyond stubbornness and desire to be the one who's always right, and if you give up the inevitable fights for power, you could have a beautiful relation, active, imaginative and resourceful. If you don't compete over trifle things and respect each other's opinions (and each other's desire to be the boss), and if you manage to direct your energy outwards, towards the others, you are in for a very exciting relation. No dream will be too bold, no adventure too courageous, no project too imaginative. You can accomplish so much together! Provided that you establish the mandate period of each of you very clearly.
Have you fallen in love with a Taurus? Do you happen to like stability? Taurus is very different from you. He/she keeps his/her feet on the ground, he/she likes safety, risks scare him/her to death, change is an earthquake to him/her. Not to say that Taurus does not have your strong nerves and this could lead to many conflicts! The main disadvantage for an Aries in getting involved with a Taurus lies in the fact that he/she is really, really slow in everything he/she does. Not in the bad meaning of the word, only Taurus is more prudent, more difficult to start, more sensual when making love, or slower in making decisions. I don't have to tell you how much this thing will annoy you, because Aries lives and moves at top speed. I think you are already guessing. Both Taurus men and women think food is a kind of perfect prelude for the sexual union, so this is an idea if you want to go on. After you turn off the lights, you will discover such a sensual, loving and tender person that you might want to change yourself a little.
Gemini people have enough charm to share it with other people and they are so captivating that you could be hypnotized. You both like thrilling life and you both get bored easily. You both have a dexterity one could envy and you are both agile. For both Aries and Gemini communication is so important that you will always have a lot of friends and activities, a tireless and forever exciting life. You do everything together, from having ardent philosophical debates to drawing up detailed layouts, and you couldn't complete each other better. You might be in lack of money, rest or whatever, but you will never be short of ideas. Gemini will make you known like no other, because nobody is better than Gemini is at spreading the word. Fortunately for you, Gemini people are flexible so he/she does not need leadership (the thing that gnaws at your heart) and will happily take the road you chose.
Aries and Cancer. Fire and Water. The Crab is so different from you that the relationship depends entirely on you, on your attitude and on how much you can take. Cancer is very attached to family and he/she wants to have a home very much. You feel the need to conquer the world, to take risks, to start new projects, to have a larger perspective. Cancer longs for stability and is terrorized by your adventurous spirit: you scare him/her completely. When you try to explain to him/her that you want to do something great for the human kind, money or friends, he/she will just ask you why you can't have a regular job like all the others, be someone's subordinate.
Aries and Leo. Twin Fires... A sensational meeting between soulmates, full of power, energy and force. If you found a Leo, remember that his/her personality seems to have been created to match yours. You will never miss bold ideas, conversation and adventures. The Lion has a great heart that will fascinate you, and an inclination towards theatricalism that will always make you laugh. You are both Fire signs, so you will always discover new things together, you will create or initiate projects. You want the same things, so you will get them much easier together. Leo is a very romantic sign - he/she symbolizes the celestial man's heart - so your Leo will have many, many adorable surprises for you.
Virgo is meticulous, hardworking (like you), but you have very different ways of expressing yourselves and perceive the world. Virgo gets up in the morning and knows exactly what he/she will be doing at 9:15 am or 3:30 pm, and if he/she doesn't finish his/her work, he/she is just like a toy with a key, he/she keeps spinning until he/she gets where he/she wants to. Virgo doesn't need a boss to push him/her from behind: his/her ambition is enough. There is no such thing like a Virgo not helping his/her friends or not keeping his/her word. One could say that this is the purpose of Virgo's life. You, dear Aries, have the overall view, more courage and you are better at relations and connections. Virgo takes great pleasure in details and organization. Next to a Virgo, if you succeed in changing that much so that your relationship works, you will become stronger and you will have more chances for your dreams to come true.
Aries and Libra, Fire and Air, the warrior Mars and the Beautiful Venus. Moreover, you are opposite signs in the zodiac! (Libra is at six sun signs away from Aries.) In just a few words? You either complete each other or compete against each other. There is no middle way with you two: it is all or nothing. But Fire needs Air, and since air also means wind, which likes playing with the fire flames, there is everything between you two rather than nothing. Libra, as a sign of equilibrium (that he/she always looks for), is very skillful when it comes to negotiation and he/she knows how to bring peace in your life and how to incite you - as an Air sign, Libra communicates very well. Unlike the impetuous and thoughtless Aries, Libra thinks objectively, progressively, and divides problems in smaller "parts" that are easier to "digest".
Aries and Scorpio. Fire and Water. You are both under the sign of Mars, the god of war, but you have different ways of expressing yourselves. Fortunately for the Aries in love with a Scorpio, the latter has at least some common qualities with the first one: Sscorpio is loud, passionate and ardent. This is really a relationship full of action! It is not a typical combination on the list of the happy couples, because you both want to be winners. So it will only last if both of you are willing to make some efforts.
Aries and Sagittarius. Two Fires, one passion. Any Aries's motto is adventure. It's not a wonder that you have found your Sagittarius! No matter if you climb mountains together, learn something new or start a business, nothing will ever be boring next to a Sagittarius! The Aries-Sagittarius combination is very good, because you are both Fire signs and you have so many ideas that you could recreate the world from the beginning. You are both curious about anything that surrounds you. You have finally found someone who's as idealistic as you are and with whom you can have endless discussions.
Aries and Capricorn. Fire and Earth. It will take many compromises and much patience for you to stay together. Your opinions and lifestyles have absolutely nothing in common. You, dear Aries, cannot resist in a structured environment for long, be it a relationship or a job. As a genuine Fire sign, you need to explore territories and you always venture where the ordinary man does not even dare to look, because the essence of your sign is the primal force of life. On the other hand, Capricorn is a practical, cautious sign that likes safety and well-organized structures. Capricorn sets high value on reputation and social status, he/she often takes big responsibilities and usually manages to make a name for him/herself.
Aries and Aquarius. Fire and Air. An adventure in the shape of a great love. Indeed, next to an Aquarius, your life will be what you have always wanted: a great adventure. Aquarius has a mysterious and unearthly air, and, at the same time, a sharp, analytical mind. I bet you fell in love at first sight with such a combination of qualities an Aries can appreciate so well! Deep down, you are a rebel, and so is Aquarius. You can do everything you want together - a better world, a good business, a happy family. Aquarius's role on Earth is to see the flaws of the society, to make a better world - yes, Aquarius really believes that, and he/she will always try to help many people.
Aries and Pisces. Fire and Water. After you blow off steam for a while, dear Aries, you will run away exhausted, because water has a special way of overflowing continually.The native Pisces likes having a strong partner: that's good, you have it. Pisces doesn't want to be in control: another good point for you. Pisces doesn't like making decisions: you'd think he/she is the right one for you. BUT the native Pisces is dedicated to the others, his/her personality is almost volatile, he/she is altruistic and capable of enormous sacrifices. This is nice and you will surely be fascinated by Pisces' inner world, but he/she is absent-minded too often, and the thing with self-sacrificing will get on your nerves when you see how he/she lets the others take advantage of him/her.